He Wanted to Break Me — Or Why I Won’t Judge Janay Palmer

September 17, 2014

The typical response to public incidents of domestic violence, like the recent elevator one with Ray Rice and Janay Palmer …

The Myth of the Rom-Com-Romance (aka Don’t Touch My Spikes)

June 27, 2014

Those who know me (or, to be more accurate, those who have tried to get to know me) know that …

February 27, 2014

I recently received this letter from one of my readers: I haven’t had much success with men and, the majority …

February 13, 2014

Love is a peculiar thing. So many people want it, so many people crave it, so many write about it …

January 26, 2014

When you start dating someone, everyone always warns you about red flags. Watch out for the red flags, they say, …

December 13, 2013

I recently received an email from a reader sharing the story of the worst breakup of her life. Her story …

October 23, 2013

A really talented artist died today. I didn’t know Carlos Batts well, but he and his wife, April Flores, were …